One-to-One Coaching for Male Survivors
"No matter how many times you are knocked down - You can Stand Again"
You dont have to navigate this alone
Separation, coercive control, and family violence leave a specific kind of damage — the kind that's hard to explain to people who haven't lived it. Confusion, self-doubt, emotional volatility, a loss of who you were before all of this.
I've been through it. I built Stand Again because I needed it to exist. And I coach because the right conversation at the right moment can change everything.
What coaching is
Private, one-on-one virtual sessions with a certified trauma-informed coach (ICAHP-recognised). A confidential space to make sense of what happened, stabilise what's happening now, and start building what comes next.
This is not clinical therapy. I don't diagnose or treat mental health conditions. What I offer is grounded, practical guidance from someone who understands the specific dynamics of male family violence — because I've lived them.
This coaching is for you if:
- You're in the middle of divorce or family court proceedings and need someone in your corner to help you stay anchored and think clearly
- You're struggling to regulate your emotions after separation and it's affecting your work, your parenting, or your health
- You've lost your sense of who you are — your confidence, your identity, your direction
- You're trying to understand what actually happened in your relationship and why it affected you the way it did
What a session looks like
60 minutes, one-on-one, via video call. You bring what's on your mind. We work through it together — practically, honestly, without judgment.
Sessions are available as a single booking or as a package for men who want continuity and commitment to their recovery.
Choose Your Option
All sessions are virtual. Available to men in Australia and internationally.
Packages are prepaid and can be booked at your own pace — no expiry, no lock-in schedule.
$330 AUD. Save $45 — most popular
$1,050 AUD. Save $200 — best value
$125 AUD. Book one session at a time
Please provide at least 24 hours notice to reschedule or cancel a session.
About your coach
Tim is the founder of Stand Again and a certified trauma-informed coach recognised by the International Centre for Arts and Health Practitioners (ICAHP). He is the author of three books on male family violence and recovery:
- Coercive Control: Every Tactic Explained,
- Reaching Him, and
- Reconnecting with Your Feelings After Abuse
And has spent years turning lived experience into practical, accessible guidance for men.
He has personal experience of coercive control, family violence, and post-separation abuse. He is someone who has walked this road, studied it deeply, and knows how to help you find your footing.
Testimonials
" If you are able, book an appointment with him.
I have gotten more in two sessions with him than 4 months with a councillor. I wish I had found his content earlier, but now I have an understanding of what was happening to me and can begin to stand again."
A survivor of family abuse and coercive control 2026
"Stand Again is absolutely and completely accurate, true and real, in its descriptions, explanations, devastating harms caused, hopelessness, confusion, externally generated yet self-perceived potential insanity and the inhumaneness, of emotional abuse and coercive control perpetrated against men."
A survivor of family abuse and coercive control 2025
"Stand Again offers real, accurate, currently best practice, painfully true, informed, essential and helpful ways to regain and live again; one's life; and the lives one loves that have been devastated and destroyed by emotional abuse."
A survivor of family abuse and coercive control 2025
"The courage, resilience, strength of mind soul and body, and more than anything: The ability to love. Really love truly. These normal, essential, and human attributes are shown by Stand Again."
A survivor of family abuse and coercive control 2025
"Hello! Just wanted to say "thank you!" for your great videos! A good friend of mine asked me if his situation with his wife was normal - I said it wasn't. But, I followed up by sending him a few of your videos. Really opened his eyes! Thanks for being strong & sharing your story. I know at least one man that you helped to Stand Again!"
Social Media Comment 2026
Additional Support
If you’re looking for crisis support, legal advice, or other services
Crisis Support
Directory of national services that offer support tailored to men, including counselling, safety planning, and referrals
Self-Education
Recommended watch and reading list for men seeking to deepen their knowledge on family violence and healthy relationships
Useful Templates
Ready-to-go templates to plan your exit, document abuse, manage post-separation parenting, and support your healing journey