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Crisis Support for Men Experiencing Family Violence in Australia

If you're a man experiencing domestic or family violence, you're not alone. The following national services offer support tailored to men, including counselling, safety planning, and referrals:

  • Stand Again - Certified Trauma Coach, offering support for men affected by family violence
  • 1800RESPECT - 24/7 national support for anyone impacted by domestic, family, or sexual violence.
  • MensLine Australia - Free, confidential 24/7 counselling for men. Focuses on relationships, family violence, mental health, and fathering.
  • Uniting Family Violence Counselling - With an emphasis on prevention and providing a dedicated support system to help you move forward
  • Lifeline - 24/7 crisis support and suicide prevention. For any Australian experiencing emotional distress.
  • Beyond Blue - Mental health support with a focus on anxiety, depression, and emotional wellbeing. Offers phone, online, and peer-based support.

Where to find Financial Assistance in Australia

Despite popular belief, there are avenues for financial assistance for male victims of family violence:

  • Victims of Crime Compensation - Provides financial assistance for counselling, safety, relocation, loss of earning, medical treatment, and emergency expenses
    • Victoria: Victims of Crime Assistance Tribunal / Scheme (now transitioning to VOCA)
    • NSW: Victims Services NSW
    • QLD: Victim Assist Queensland
    • WA: Criminal Injuries Compensation
    • SA: Commissioner for Victims’ Rights
    • TAS, NT, ACT have equivalent programs.
  • Legal Aid (State Based) - Provides family law advice, representation, family violence support, duty lawyers
  • Services Australia - Provides multiple forms of financial assistance, including:
    • Family Tax Benefit (A & B) – Helps with the cost of raising children. Shared-care dads can still qualify.
    • Child Care Subsidy – Your subsidy rate is based on your income and your percentage of care.
    • Rent Assistance – Extra support if you’re renting and receiving eligible payments (like FTB).
    • Medicare Safety Nets – You can register your children on a separated-family safety net and get higher Medicare rebates once you hit the threshold.
    • Energy Supplement & State Concessions – Small but useful discounts off electricity, gas, and water bills.
    • Single Income Family Tax Offset – A tax-time offset for single parents that often gets overlooked.
    • Health Care Card – Cheaper medicines and concessions if you meet the income tests.
    • School & Uniform Support – State programs that help with uniforms, camps, excursions, and essentials.
    • Carer Allowance – If your child has additional needs or is undergoing assessments.
  • NDIS – If your child is eligible, supports can cover therapy and other costs.
  • Emergency Relief Grants - Organisations such as Salvos, Vinnies, and Uniting typically offer emergency relief funding

Where to Find Therapists in Australia

Finding the right therapist can make a big difference — especially if you’re recovering from abuse, trauma, or family court stress. These directories help you search by location, specialty, and approach, so you can find someone who fits your needs:

  • Stand Again - Certified Trauma Coach, offering support for men affected by family violence
  • Blokes Psychology - A psychology practice dedicated to provide mental health support to boys and men across Australia.
  • Better Health Services - A government-run site offering general mental health info and a gateway to local services. Not a directory, but a helpful starting point for understanding options.
  • Healthdirect - A national government-funded service that helps you find GPs, psychologists, and mental health support near you.
  • Australian Psychological Society (APS) - A directory of registered psychologists across Australia. Lets you search by issue, gender, therapy type, and location.
  • PACFA (Psychotherapy and Counselling Federation of Australia) - A directory of accredited counsellors and psychotherapists. Includes trauma-informed specialists.
  • Australian Counselling Association (ACA) - A national directory of registered counsellors. Useful if you’re looking for more affordable or alternative support options.
  • Good Therapy Australia - An independent, Australia-wide directory with detailed practitioner profiles. Helps you filter by modality, issue, and region.
  • Australia Counselling - Lets you browse therapists by location, concern, and therapeutic approach. Includes blog resources for clients as well.
  • Talked - An online platform connecting you to Australian-based therapists for virtual sessions. Great for flexibility and remote access.

Where to Find Family Lawyers in Australia

Finding the right legal support can make all the difference — especially if you’re navigating custody, parenting orders, or defending against false allegations. These services offer family law expertise with varying levels of accessibility and approach:

  • SLF Lawyers (recommended by the team at Stand Again) - A full-service law firm with strong experience in high-conflict family matters.
  • Federal Court Family Lawyer Finder - A government-run directory that includes links to Legal Aid offices in each state, as well as private family lawyers and community legal services.
  • Australian Family Lawyers - A national network of family law specialists handling separation, parenting, and financial agreements. Offices in most major cities.
  • Men’s Legal Service - A not-for-profit law firm providing affordable legal support to fathers and men navigating separation, custody disputes, or false allegations.

Parenting Programs for Fathers in Australia

These programs offer guidance and tools for parenting through conflict, separation, and trauma. Many are free, evidence-based, and designed to strengthen your connection with your kids — even in complex family dynamics.

  • Triple P - Positive Parenting Program - A flexible, evidence-based program offering practical strategies to build strong relationships, manage behaviour, and raise resilient children. Available in online and in-person formats.
  • Circle of Security - Focuses on attachment and emotional safety, helping you understand your child’s needs and become a secure base. Especially useful for dads wanting to create emotional connection after separation.
  • Raising Children Network - A government-supported resource hub with articles, videos, and tools covering everything from newborns to teens. Includes specific support for separated and single fathers.
  • ParentWorks - A free, evidence-based online parenting program for parents of children aged 2–16. Focuses on reducing child behaviour problems and improving parenting confidence.

Where to Find Safe Accomodation in Australia

Emergency accommodation options for men experiencing family violence or unsafe home situations. These services provide crisis referrals, safety planning and access to temporary housing and motel placements:

  • Victoria
    • The Orange Door - Support and crisis referrals for all victim-survivors, including men.
    • Safe Steps - Can assist male victims with crisis referrals and emergency accommodation pathways.
  • New South Wales
    • Link2Home (1800 152 152)- 24/7 homelessness line providing access to crisis accommodation for men. 
  • Queensland
    • Homelessness Hotline (1800 474 753) - Statewide crisis accommodation and safety referrals for men and families.
    • Sheltered by Grace - Crisis accommodation and support for men experiencing homelessness, disadvantage or unsafe home situations.
  • Western Australia
    • Entrypoint Perth - Referral service for crisis and transitional accommodation, including for men.
  • South Australia
    • Homelessness Gateway (1800 003 308) - Access point for crisis accommodation and safety services for men.
  • Tasmania
    • Housing Connect (1800 800 588) - Statewide referral service for emergency accommodation.
  • ACT
    • OneLink (ACT) - Central access point for accommodation and support services.
  • Northern Territory
    • NT Homelessness Services (1800 234 567) - Crisis accommodation and safety referrals for men.

Men's Advocacy & Support Groups in Australia

These organisations offer resources, advocacy, and support for men who are survivors of family violence, at risk, or navigating high-conflict family breakdown. Some provide legal guidance, others focus on awareness or mental health:

  • One in Three Campaign - Raises awareness of male victims of family violence. Offers research, personal stories, and a service directory to help men understand their rights and options.
  • Bettina Arndt - Promotes gender equity through advocacy for men.
  • Movember Foundation - International charity founded in Australia focused on men’s health, including mental health, suicide prevention, and emotional wellbeing.

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